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Can love remain after divorce?

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For me, yes.
Q — Can love remain after divorce?
For me, yes. She's someone who cares deeply for my child. That alone means she remains important to me. I'm grateful to her. Sometimes I still say, “I love you.” The answer is usually, “Thank you.” Haha. So I joke, “I knooooow you love me too.” But I don't need her to say the same words back. The shape of the relationship is different now. I don't think loving someone gives me the right to demand that they love me in the same way. My love for someone and their love for me are two different things.
For me, yes.