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Honestly, I don't know.
Q — Where is the line between love and attachment?
Honestly, I don't know.
I don't think there is a clean line you can point to.
But if I'm the only person feeling satisfied by what I'm doing, I think I need to stop and look at myself.
No matter how hard I'm trying, if none of it is reaching the other person, I need to ask, “Who am I actually doing this for?”
If the other person truly wants distance, sometimes letting go can be an act of love too. At least I think it can.
None of that is easy.
In the end, I think I have to keep looking at the actual person in front of me, not just at my idea of love.
Honestly, I don't know.