Is love something you carry like a burden?

I don't think love should feel like a burden I'm carrying for someone. If I start saying, “Look how much I'm carrying for you,” it becomes heavy in a different way. If I support someone, I want that to be my choice. I want to own the choice myself. For me, love may be something people can see in the way you live before you ever explain it in words. I'd like to become that kind of man.